So, what do you do?
It’s the question I hate most. One sentence to justify my entire existence.
Inevitably, my brain throws up a blank.
‘Er- dunno’.
‘Nothing. I’ve done nothing’.
From the hours of 8 till 8, I must have done something. Quick, THINK.
Groceries, banking, faffing on computer, cleaning, phone-calls.
Nothing that will alter the course of world history. But not ‘nothing’ either.
…
Just because you don’t have a job title, doesn’t mean you don’t work.
Friend
Cook/nutritionist
Volunteer
Tutor
Household manager
gardener
Parent
Daughter
Hair/make-up stylist
Interior designer
Cheerleader/life consultant
Sister
Carer
Employee
Social director
Partner
Dress consultant
Mediator
Dog walker
Diary consultant
laundress
teacher
Finance manager
cleaner
Personal shopper
Chauffeur.
Sounds like something to me.
Encourager is a good one – it’s great when you do or say something that really helps. The other one I really enjoy is when you are a ‘connector’ (you ‘connect’ one person with another, or someone with something – a group, a book, a means of some sort – that you know is going to help). Finally, there’s just being – sometimes, a friendly smile, a couple of minutes listening… it can all help. I wish that Christians were a little more affectionate. Whenever I meet my non-christian friends, we always hug – I guess people at church still think that’s a little ott.
My favourite is the ‘side-on’ church hug, when you kind of pat the air..:-) or maybe it’s just me
Yes, encourager is a great one. Prayer warrior too..
Or the Christian hearty handshake..
Actually, that’s really encouraged me today. I love the small boy very much, but I do sometimes find myself – I don’t know, almost de-valuing that role. Somehow, working seemed like a “real” job, you know?
Good list Emma! Also: “I’m a student of human nature” or “Right now I’m working as a volunteer life-coach” or “I’m in charge of bio-hazards for a very small non-profit.” I really like to tell people I’m an ex-jewel thief and a liar, then I don’t have to explain that I’m also a bit off!
Actually, I rarely have this problem any more as I nearly always have a child or two (or three) in tow and people are more likely to exclaim “O.M.G.! You really have your hands full!” Which is true, but it always sounds so terrible coming from someone else.
Ah yes, the Handshake..!
I like jewel thief too..
You are a massive encourager, a prophetess, a preacher and teacher, an intercessor, a leader, we are your congregation, and I am so blessed every time you post something. Xx
PS I’m a Christian and I totally do hugs!! When I was a fresher, my hall CU group gave me the role of the welcome committee!!!
How about author and blog writer? x
Thanks :-)