I get scared by change and challenge.
I am afraid of being ‘a burden’ – being human and having needs.
I dread letting others down. I want people to approve of me. In fact sometimes I make that my deepest goal, and it tears me apart.
I want to be perfect and to do all things ‘right’.
I’d rather be comfortable than brave.
I find it hard to set appropriate boundaries in relationships.
I’m frightened to try.
I don’t want to be in control of my own life.
The person I look like isn’t really me.
what are yours?