- Would it help to talk? I can’t pretend I can fix it, but I’d love to listen.
- Here’s what I love about you…
- You are not a burden.
- Can I pray for you; now or later, or read to you from the Bible or get some music that might be encouraging? Here’s a Bible verse that has helped me when I was feeling X..and this is why it helped me.
- Whatever you’re facing, God’s first and last words to you are of compassion and love.
- Can I give you a lift somewhere or come with you to an appointment? Are there forms you’d like me to help you fill in or medicines I can collect?
- You’re not mad or weak or weird.
- Cup of tea?
- I’m really sorry you’re going through this.
- You’re not alone.
- What do you need?
- It’s ok not to be ok.
- I’m not going anywhere.
- Let’s take a step back. Is there another way of seeing the situation?
- Keep going – a step at a time.
- You’re doing it even though it’s hard – and I’m so proud of you
- What’s off-limits to talk about?
- I’m thinking of you
- Your struggles don’t define you.
- Don’t give up. I have hope for you, even though you might not.
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Number 8 always works for me!
Me too!
Brilliant as ever